A few years ago, I launched a creative blog with the mission of sharing tips, perspective and ideas to help support, inspire and empower others who face most of life’s challenges on their own. I named it Go Solo Me! as a rallying statement for anyone who reads it — something positive that I hoped would encourage readers to believe in themselves.

I was in an unfamiliar place in my professional life. After nearly a decade of working in a role I loved, the recession hit hard… Budgets were cut on my long-time client’s account, and I was laid off. It was a life quake for me. I was a professional island.

Or was I?

The weeks that followed taught me a lot about the art of networking and job seeking. It led to consulting work and another full time role a few months later. It showed me that life goes on… And, it led me to an ultimate truth: Who you know matters just as much as how great you are at what you do.

So, even though you may feel alone when you’re facing a big change — even an unexpected or unwanted one — you’re not. Not really.

Yes, the work ahead is yours to do. The hurdles are yours to clear. And every step you take to move forward is up to you… But, don’t forget how important it is to include friends and allies in your journey.  They give you the one thing you can’t have on your own: a broader perspective.

If you’re not sure what I mean, here are a few points to note:

• People you work with experience your strengths in a different way than you do.
• People who know you well understand what matters most to you, but they’re not biased by it in observing how you operate.
• People you can trust will be honest with you about your strengths and weaknesses if you ask them.

So, take time to appreciate the people in your professional “tribe.” Ask them for feedback. Be sure to show your support and gratitude for their impact on your work and professional life.

And, remember, if you face a big disappointment in business, you’re not facing it alone. Not really.